My Up and Down !!

Just some up and down post to share and start of for this week.


Well…i spend my Birthday (Thursday Night) watching movie with my Hubby and Boy.

This round … Jeremy not really enjoy the movie, he started to get bored
after 1 hour …

but still manage to seat and hang in the Cinema till the end of the show.


Not bad already !!!! Another “good boy” for him.

It’s not easy for a active boy to seat there for a whole movie….sometime.Jeremy was impressed with the BIG Poster !!

(How nice, if mummy can draw this for him 🙂

I like to share with you my Birthday Gifts from my Hubby..

A very practical Prezzie this year .


But i think is just what i really need !!!

A nice and strong kitchen stroller and nice lazy chair !!
Guess you know where i have been ya …. the furniture look familiar to you… ???

hahahha… yaya… we were hanging around at IKEA, Curve, Ikano the whole Friday.

You know, it’s hard for us to find time to visit those places.

Hubby always say very “far la” to travel there… took around 45 minit to 1 hour drive.

Once we were there, mostly we spend the whole day there…

shop and dine…non-stop!!
I really enjoy that moment !!

&

Share with you my Lamp Chop for Dinner Yesterday.

It’s was my first time cooking lamp chops. It’s turn out quite good …

Hubby said the meat was just nice to eat !!
Anchovies Lamb Chops

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Add some Lea & Perrin Sauce , black pepper , sea salt & some rosemary .

Mash them up into a paste.

Marinate the lambs with the anchovies paste in a freezer bag.

Leave in the fridge overnight.

Super Roast at 200 degree celsius for 30 minutes for well done. 20
minutes for medium.

(add ground pepers and honey (optional) to taste).

Serve with black pepers sos and vege !! It’s was very easy to prepared !!

Last… not forget today is my son 25 months old !!Nothing much to jot down this months.

Still not yet sleeping in his room… once a while depand on his mood 😦

But what i can say was… no matters how mummy look

at him from the front, back-side or side way….hihihi

He still mummy little boy . Happy 25 months , Ee Jay !!



I also like to share with you something that make me down lately …

Lately i been scolding my son quite often…

i m very upset everytime i scold him badly.

I really feel hurt …. sometime i even cry after a good scold and i whack him too.

( btw… do u show ur kids when you are upset and cry ?? will they understand??)

I not sure is he understand what i m trying to teach and say,

or he just ignore me !!??

Up to certain extend …. i feel like “giving-up” and be alone.

This matters make me very down, upset and unhappy lately !!!

Like that how to planning for 2nd one …… !!!!!!?????? o.O

Ok ….. feel free to drop me comments ….Thank you

Today i just post everything in one post !!

23 Responses to “My Up and Down !!”

  1. sting Says:

    happy birthday to you and happy 25 months to Jeremy boy!

    I know how you feel… I also feel the same coz my boy is very mischievous and I had to scold and sometimes hit him too.. and after that I feel sad and hugs him.. sigh.. I suppose we just need to be more patient…

  2. andrewjune Says:

    happy 25 mths old to jeremy boy!

    wah william so nice to gv you the lazy chair and kitchen stroller…very practical!

    ohhh, i heard about the terrible two phase…but even so, i also having headache over my rachael hahaha…

    sometimes i try to tolerate myself and not to get flared up easily…so i walked away when i’m very angry and let andrew handled her…needless to say, she prefers her daddy hahaha…

    btw, we are also thinking of bringing rachael to her first movie, prob next week…also to watch madagascar 🙂 dont thk we can watch quantum of solace with her hahaha…

  3. agnes Says:

    happy belated bday to u & 25 mth boy..

    agreed that we need patient, patient, and patient when raising up the kids… of coz we might feel disappointed but shouldn't give up coz u r the mom whom loves him the most in this world..

    i do hope it doesnt stop u for second family plan… u see, Jeremy so sweet and cute ya? it's time to plan a lil bro/sis for him adi.. 😉

    yea, the poang chair frm IKEA is just superb!!! very comfortable.. hubby bought 1 recently and we placed in my mom's room.. let her enjoy the chair while doing foot massage..

    btw, u can cook and bake really well.. 😉 ops, and creative too!!!

  4. FAMILY FIRST Says:

    Ooh a very nice gift wor .. love the kitchen stroller!

  5. Miaoy Says:

    anggie..
    no wonder u said my little stroller looks familiar…
    u were looking for the same thing as well…but my cooking place s too small, just a small balcony, that’s why i cannt get a big one…
    looks like William really know what u need…

  6. Miaoy Says:

    hmmmm, after knowing what happened between u and jeremy…
    I had the same feeling at first, but after many many times, especially he repeat the same naughty things again and again, I just dun know how to control my temper anymore…
    most of the time, when either one(me or simon) get angry, another one ll try to explain to Hong Hong what did he did wrong…
    if he can accept and apologies, we ll hug him and explain to him, why we scold/bit him..
    but sad to say, most of the time, even i dun scold him, explain 1000 times, he s still jumping up and down…aih….we r both still learning…
    the planning for the 2nd one, I would give comment on when s too late or too early, or when s the best time…after he gone tru this terrible two, he will have more and more new trouble to us…so, is like endless, how to get a best timing???? my opinion s, just count on our age(mama’s age), not to b too late loh…

  7. kiasumum Says:

    Not easy to play a role as a mother, it’s take times, it’s take patient…. I do yelled at them, whacked them, and I think most mother did that… not only you… so don’t feel bad. I can tell you that I’m hundred times worst that you OK… I’m very impatience mom and I very bad-tempered too

    And… I still continue with planning #3 but that enuff for me no more #3…. So, please don’t let all these stopping u on your 2nd baby planning

  8. Anggie's Journal Says:

    Dear Mummies here..

    So TQ, for all the comments, thanks for remind me as a mother !! And not to give up so easily !!!

    So much to learn !!

    I feel better now !!

  9. slavemom Says:

    Happy 25th Mth, Jeremy! We oso hardly go to Ikea/1U coz hubby complain too far. 🙂
    Don’t feel so sad. We r oni human. N raising a kid takes a lot of patience. Moreover, he’s oni 2. Still too young to u/std logic n ctrl own behaviour. But that doesn’t mean u don’t explain or teach him the right behaviour. That’s y a lot of patience is needed.
    U know, I’m having probs with my girl. When she doesn’t listen, I tend to get vy angry coz I feel that she’s old enuff to u/std n reason with. But hubby keep reminding me, altho she’s 5+, she’s still a kid. So as a parent, we must oso ctrl our own anger n frustration. Easier said than done, I know.

  10. Mummy Moon Says:

    Act not easy to be a good mummy lah… I also do what you did to your boy, I scold them, yell at them and whack on them too if they make me angry… Recently my girl don know why…whenever I scold her, she will very hurt and cry, and come near to me and hug me… keep calling me Mummy, Mummy… so touching and make me also want to cry…

  11. Mummy Moon Says:

    Happy birthday to you .. Hope we can exchange link………

  12. jazzmint Says:

    happy belated birthday anggie.

    what i do is instead of getting angry, i take a deep breath and break into laughter, turn the scene into a joke and warn them for doing mistakes. i find that sometimes we don’t need to be so hard on the kids, especially if it’s 1st time mistake. but of course i’d give the *deadly* stare when i don’t like what they do, and they will get it LOL.

    yes kids do know when our mood change. when i scold my maid, they will quietly do their stuff and dare not bother me haha

  13. Cat Cat Says:

    Anggie,
    I do tell my girls when I’m upset and not happy about them so that they know and learn from the mistake and why I punished them. That’s how they learn. Don’t feel bad about teaching your child. It’s part of mom’s job.

  14. vickylow Says:

    wah going to cinema with Jeremy ah. I still scare to bring my girl, scare she cant sit long, scare she will disturb others & etc 🙂

  15. agnes Says:

    btw.. a tag for u 😉

  16. Mummy to QiQi Says:

    happy belated birthday to you Anggie!

    love that chair. it is very comfy 🙂

  17. Pet Says:

    I’ve never taken my 3 yr old daughter to the cinema. She is super-active, not sure how she will sit thru the whole movie. I’ll give it a try ONE day. 🙂

  18. chanelwong Says:

    Belated Birthday to you !!!!

    So nice getting nice gifts and meal from william….

    I got that kitchen stroller..Othniel help me to modify by putting 4 wheels which can rotate 360degree..we redeem using IKEA voucher…

  19. Bits of Life 'n' Taste Says:

    hey Anggie… I would say this is pretty common. Part and puzzle of parenting and motherhood. I did feel the same previously too… don’t worry… they will eventually understand what did you mean.

  20. Anggie's Journal Says:

    Some small note here : I like to say thank you very much to some mummies that leave me comments on my previous post “My Up and Down” … i really appreciated !! Remind me as a mother and the most important , don’t give up so easily !! i guess every mums will have the same experience as me . We all have up and down when come to our kids, the one we care and love , the one that drive us mad and the one that touch our heart so deeply !!!

  21. Annie Q Says:

    Nice & Big present ur hub give u. 🙂

    Happy belated birthday again.

    How was Madagastar 2? Is it nice? Plan to bring my boys to see.

  22. Jacss Says:

    i also got d same troly table from IKEA…and put to good use too!!
    hey…as a mom we all can truly udrstd & share yr upsets & frustrations when it comes to disciplining a child esp with a boy!! don't be too upset abt it as it's a long journey so u need way more energy & patience to walk this lifetime journey, ok!!
    so cheer up babe!!

  23. Anggie's Journal Says:

    Annie & Jac:
    Thanks ..

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