SCREAM out to be noticed ??

My little man likes to scream. Sometimes just for no reason at all and other times because he didn’t get his way . He also likes to throw things, especially when he’s angry. We would love some advise on how to handle this or maybe examples of ways to discipline him?

As for the screaming part. He likes to scream and sometimes it out of excitement but mostly its out of anger .Or he want our attention? The screaming is really shape and really hurt our ears . The worst part when we bring him out to restaurant, he will scream like a thunder … oh, I m embarrassing .

Nanny been complained so many time about this too.

Normally we will say very calmly and firmly that STOP and NO screaming. But He is far too young a child with whom i can have rational discussions. I cant move him elsewhere and shut the door. I cant ignore and leave him like that . He scream even loud . Sometime I just put him on the floor / baby cot and let him cry out of his lung . Even i was heart break to leave him, but i have no choice . Daddy said is time to cane him for behave this way . I don’t believe cane will solve the problem. Cane at this age ? 16 months.

“Terrible 2” start early ????? Mummies out there …. How you handle this ?



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20 Responses to “SCREAM out to be noticed ??”

  1. khongfamily Says:

    Either I will let him scream all he wants till he stops or put him at the naughty corner.

    I won’t attend to him if he doesn’t stop screaming. And I don’t think cane will help.

  2. mybabybay Says:

    ignore??!!

  3. jazzmint Says:

    hmm ignore…my boy doesn’t scream but he bends his body and try to pull us down whenever he wants something he doesn’t get it.

  4. Cat Cat Says:

    All kids go thru the same phrase… Lots of patience and plenty of love, kisses and hugs will do the job. No cane ya…!!!

  5. andrewjune Says:

    ohhh boy…sorry anggie, i have not experienced this yet…so can’t comment on this topic, BUT would love to read what are others’ comments so I will know how to handle my lil rachael later…
    btw, is dat lil jeremy boy’s photo? (on the left)

  6. Malaika's mummy Says:

    My girl is the same as well,or I would say worst, she even stamps her feet, roll on the floor. Eh.. I tried to reason with her, by asking her to stop and tell me what she wants. She seems to understand that, but no words coming out from her, and might continue her screaming. I just ignored her. Terrible 2 is a very frustrating phase for both parents and toddler.

  7. Malaika's mummy Says:

    My girl is the same as well,or I would say worst, she even stamps her feet, roll on the floor. Eh.. I tried to reason with her, by asking her to stop and tell me what she wants. She seems to understand that, but no words coming out from her, and might continue her screaming. I just ignored her. Terrible 2 is a very frustrating phase for both parents and toddler.

  8. slavemom Says:

    CE is oso showing the same behaviour now. He screams at u when he doesn’t get things his way or when he doesn’t like to be teased. If telling him to stop doesn’t work, I’ll usually ignore him. Or if I’m in the mood, I’ll distract him with something else. In my opinion, introducing the cane at too young an age will not be effective later on.

  9. ezekielys Says:

    See how is the reaction for canning, it may work…

    My baby 6 mth sometime try to pull the wire/plug from the wall as he now try on the walker, my MIL lightly hit his hand , he will know n scare…but may forget again…need constant teaching probably .. n strike a balance in teaching them …hit/no hit/scold..tats the challenge…

    Guess baby will understand when we scold him, or bit him, just not to hurt him.

    Ezekiel.

  10. sting Says:

    well.. at least he doesn’t do what my friend’s girl does.. bang her head on the wall!! be patient and try to talk to him ya..

  11. Anggie's journel Says:

    Khongfamily:
    Jeremy cant understand abt ‘noti’ corner, normally i leave him on the floor.

    Mybabybay:
    Yah, that’s what i do !! Ignore.

    Jazzmint:
    But V is better not scream like Jer .. *-*

    cat cat:
    Patient !!!!

    June:
    Yah.. i also get advice from all mummies … how to deal with situation like that … more to go ….

    malaika mum:
    aiyooo.. my boy also roll on the floor and stamp his feets too.

    slavemom:
    i agreed with u abt the caning matters … that y i dun used cane to teach them .. but not sure abt future !!

    ezekiel:
    1st, thanks for dropping by and leave u comment. hahaha.. now we can share abt parent hood tru blogging.. how nice !!
    I dun agreed with caning at this age .. introducing the cane at too young an age will not be effective later on.

    Sting:
    Bang the head on the wall !!!!???? wow this is very terrible , sure the parents was very headache and upset !! Sometime kids can really drive us crazy ..

  12. Anggie's journel Says:

    Khongfamily:
    Jeremy cant understand abt ‘noti’ corner, normally i leave him on the floor.

    Mybabybay:
    Yah, that’s what i do !! Ignore.

    Jazzmint:
    But V is better not scream like Jer .. *-*

    cat cat:
    Patient !!!!

    June:
    Yah.. i also get advice from all mummies … how to deal with situation like that … more to go ….

    malaika mum:
    aiyooo.. my boy also roll on the floor and stamp his feets too.

    slavemom:
    i agreed with u abt the caning matters … that y i dun used cane to teach them .. but not sure abt future !!

    ezekiel:
    1st, thanks for dropping by and leave u comment. hahaha.. now we can share abt parent hood tru blogging.. how nice !!
    I dun agreed with caning at this age .. introducing the cane at too young an age will not be effective later on.

    Sting:
    Bang the head on the wall !!!!???? wow this is very terrible , sure the parents was very headache and upset !! Sometime kids can really drive us crazy ..

  13. Sue Says:

    Hi! Err…I use to just ask him to stop then let him scream all he wants..it’s a phase….he will be over it…

  14. Ita Says:

    I have not used cane for both my boys yet but sometimes tempted to. But we will normally explain to them that they should not do this or that. Somehow after a few times, they understand and stop doing it.

  15. Miaoy Says:

    anggie..

    i m facing the same prob…
    Hong Hong has been screaming for looong time liao…

    we ignore him, he ll continue till the papa go to him…
    we do what he asked for, he ll also continue (sometimes)..

    just dun know what to do..

    i would say, diff kids needs diff solution for this situation…
    things work for other kid, not necessary suitable for ours…

  16. Sasha Says:

    just ignore. Mine even lie down on the floor. Ignore him and he will stand up and play again. The more u attend and react to it, the more he does it. He just want attention.

  17. wen Says:

    explain to him nicely or a scolding is what i do. ignoring him is a gd way too

  18. mama of 2LittleFellas Says:

    that’s a very intense photo of him:)

    well, it’s a phase. i think ignore is the best solution so far. don’t worry about his screaming in public…i believe all other parents will nod in understanding rather than despise it, cause we all been through it too 🙂

  19. Mummy to QiQi Says:

    only thing we can do to help is by not over react but reply or acknowledge softly in return. Not easy to do as my girl always make me mad…(i think i always scream first, hahaha)

  20. janet Says:

    my boy used to scream a lot… sometimes with no apparent reasons. this is just a way for them to express themselves esp if they don’t know how to communicate yet. he’s now three years old but he stopped screaming way before he reached this age. just try to see what the problem is… if there’s an obvious problem, then try to solve… but if he simply scream, try to ignore. and give him lots of tlc. he will outgrow it, i promise you.

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